Stop judging anything. Once you judge anything as good or bad, you own it. And, you get to carry your judgments with you all the time.
Judgments define you as this or that. Are you willing to limit your identity to ‘this or that’?
These judgments become a burden; you are left without the energy to go for what you want.
You don’t want to be the person everyone is talking about, and not in a good way.
‘There goes Sherri. You can go to for any gossip in the company.’ Not a prize distinction. Is Sherri all about gossip? Even if she is not, it does not matter because her label has been established. She has to live with it or change others’ perspectives of her. Of course, Sherri has always judged others. That’s how others see Sherri – the Gossip Who Judges. Life comes rolling back on you when you start to judge others. Sherri is now in the This or That Club.
Watch how the world is. Choose to participate or not, however, the best thing to do is be detached from what is going on ‘out there’. It takes practice, so start practicing right away.
Instead, be here now. Pay attention to what is occurring right now in your life. This very second, your life is all about options, so choose wisely.
Deal with what is in front of you. Stay in the ‘Now’ as much as you can. Your stress levels will lower. Your work will be better. Your home life will thrive.
You will be better.
~Joanne Victoria
