Give  ‘Notice to Vacate’ to anyone who is renting space in your head.

You know who they are.

Whoever is mentally controlling your life, release them, now. Whether this is current, short term or long term, it is time to let them go.

These are the people who want to know all the details: the who, what, where, why and when of you and your life.

Decide what you want to do and only do that! Always ask yourself if you really, really want to do it. Write this down and do not share with those people who continually ask what you are doing – until you are there.

When others ask how you are, you can tell them you are Great!. When others also ask what are you doing, the response, ‘Working’, is sufficient. Keep your important topics about yourself within a small group of people you trust until it has hatched. You do not need anyone else’s approval for anything you do, that is why that small group of people who support and love you are important.

It’s not what you do, but why you do it. Think and choose carefully. Do it for you and your audience, not just to impress.

Stop focusing on what you fear. Thought attracts that upon which it is directed. If you do think of fear, don’t think too strongly.

The less focus, the less real is the fear.

‘For the thing I have greatly feared has come upon me’ Job

Go where you think you are afraid to go.

Do what you think you are afraid to do.

Then there is nothing to fear but the thought.

Decide who is the most important person in the world.

Make a list of what you do not want in your life.

Be ruthless. Eliminate any and everything or person that you no longer have any desire for.

Do it now – eliminate something from your life today.

Make room for something you really want.

Be the star of your own life and have it be what you want.

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Joanne Victoria