Everything is in transition; nothing stays fixed or permanent. This includes your moods, the clouds, and cars traveling on the freeway. Transition is about stopping something and then choosing something else, yet again. It is a cycle that never stops, yet sometimes it is very disturbing as well as stimulating.
If you start a business, your life changes. If you end your relationship, your life changes. Transition is really about change – we just choose bigger words to define it. If you can work within the confines of change, you will be fine. If you can’t, you will have problems.
If you get that new job, along with that sought-after raise, or your business takes off when you find numerous investors, you may be in a better place – for now.
Just know that all things change all the time, no matter how much you try to control the outcomes. Once you change one thing, nothing will be the same, you cannot go back to the way it was.
Did you ever go on vacation to a special place, to return some time later and it feels different? It feels different because you are different. You are not the same person you were the first time you were there, so it is no surprise that you may be a bit disappointed. There is nothing wrong here, just that your perspective has changed; you have had numerous experiences since your first visit and you have changed.
No fear, as long as you remember that everything changes and that transition is with us 24/7; you will be able to readjust yourself and enjoy this great vacation – again, just from a different point of view.
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