You need relief from the ordinary, unpleasant tasks life includes. You need time. Each and every day.
You need to determine what you are doing that is no longer relevant or rewarding.
Decide what you no longer want to do, what takes up your precious time.
You need a plan to help you choose what no longer works in your life and decide what it is you truly want to do.
So, it goes. Freedom and independence to choose, time to make changes and room for all these changes to grow. This is part of what it takes to reinvent yourself.